CAAGe Reviews
At CAAGe, we’ve read it, we’ve watched it, and if we think it’s important, relevant, and accurate, we often blog it. And if you want to submit your own review, contact us.
Book and audiobook reviews
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Deep Deception
A previous review, Sister in Law, mentions the Spycops events and some of the women involved, through the lense of the law.
Deep Deception takes a closer look, seeing events through the eyes of the victims of undercover policing which overstepped the mark, and saw officers grooming women into relationships, even into forming families with them.
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Sister in Law, Fighting for Justice in a System Designed by Men
Harriet Wistrich of the Centre for Women’s Justice has written about the interface between the justice system and the women she’s represented.
High profile cases she didcusses include ‘Spycops’, Sally Challen n, Emma Humphries…
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Keanu Reeves is Not in Love with You
Maybe you don’t need telling that Keanu’s not in love with you, but behind the hilarity of scamming the scammers who pretend to be Keanu Reeves and other celebrities lies a darker truth - the damage is more than financial loss.
Serious message, but delivered in great style, this book is probably the first book on adult grooming that’s had us laughing out loud!
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Groomed: Coercion, Control and a Cold-blooded Murder
Cult like groomer, Jonathon Creswell (Jonny) was a cherub faced jockey into whose orbit many women fell. All bar one of his ‘harem’ would protect him to the very end, despite him clearly having murdered Katie Simpson. This is a terrible insight into coercive control, domestic abuse, cult like tactics and people - including the police - who turned a blind eye and failed to prevent the almost inevitable ending.
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Nobody's Girl: A Memoir of Surviving Abuse and Fighting for Justice
Nobody's Girl: A Memoir of Surviving Abuse and Fighting for Justice by Virginia Roberts Giuffre.
This is the book a feisty campaigner for truth and justice gave her life up to bring you.
So it’s a must read, especially if you want an insight into how Epstein and Maxwell’s women and girls alike were sucked in, whilst the World looked on, hidden in plain sight.
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Silenced no More
A CAAGe review of Silenced No More, Surviving my Journey to Hell and Back, by Epstein/Maxwell victim/survivor Sarah Ransome. (Released Dec 2021)
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Chasing Ghislaine, Audible
The journalist who started the search for Epstein’s source of wealth took on a simple task - an interview.
It lead to something much darker, and always there, lurking in the shadows, Ghislaine Maxwell.
The victims’ story, the horrors of Epstein and the confusing character of Maxell unfurl in this compelling factual account behind the Epstein grooming pyramid.
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Please Let Me Go
‘Please Let Me Go’ Caitlin is promised a modelling job, but ends up in a horrendous situation. This is a true story, the story of a young woman who was groomed and abused, repeatedly raped and trafficked in Britain in the 21st Century.
Audiobook review
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What Lies Behind the Curtain
When Claire became a teenage model, the agency owners groomed her for sex, cleverly waiting until she was an 'adult' to have penetrative (male) sex with her. She tells the story in her useful book, which we've reviewed here.
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Eve was Shamed
This book is a ’must read’ for anyone who has bumped up against the British legal system.
The first chapter had me feeling I-d picked up the wrong book, that this was about women in legal professions. It was merely a preface - the book delves far, far deeper.
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The Psychopath Test
It takes a lot to make an understanding of psychopathy both easy and entertaining. Not every groomer is a psychopath, and not every psychopath is a groomer, but sometimes it pays to have an understanding of both
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Restored
This is a fabulous little book: a handbook for Christian survivors of domestic abuse.
Grounded in Christianity and scriptures, for anyone facing a Christian dilemma stay/go, forgive or not, this is a fabulous resource.
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Class Action
This book is an outlier in terms of our reviews - most specifically address the topics of adult grooming or persona stories. This true account of women’s fight in a male work environment was read with a view to the experience of mounting a ‘Class Action’.
The UK doesn’t have a direct equivalent to the US system, but the insight into the complexities and traumatising nature of seeking justice make it well worthy of inclusion.
Academic paper reviews
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Reforming the Relationship between Sexual Consent, Deception and Mistake
This is a summary of a paper suggesting one way of addressing legal reform that has been desperatly needed since ‘Rape by Deception’ laws were rendered useless in the UK by a judgement in one of the many Skycops cases.
Naturally the focus for us in this review is on the two jkey issues defining grooming - intent and consent - and we can’t help wondering if there’s an easier way!!
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The Psychology of Adult Sexual Grooming
A review of paper: The Psychology of Adult Sexual Grooming: Sinnamon’s Seven-Stage Model of Adult Sexual Grooming, by Grant Sinnamon, Bond University, Gold Coast, QLD, Australia. Victim and Offender Perspectives, 2017, Pages 459-487
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Cults and media stereotypes
A review of the academic paper: Cults and Media Stereotypes: Does media coverage of current and former cult members hinder victims’ recovery? Dubrow -Marsh and Levey, IJCAM Vol 5, 2023
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The BITE Model of Authoritarian Control
Review of The BITE Model of Authoritarian Control: Undue Influence, Thought Reform, Brainwashing, Mind Control, Trafficking and the Law. Hassan, Steven Alan. Fielding Graduate University ProQuest Dissertations & Theses, 2020. 28263630.
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Words Used By Women
A review of the academic paper: Words used by women to convey and give meaning to their experience, by Student Mental Health Nurse Kathryn Jane Lake, BSc Student Mental Health Nurse, University of East Anglia (UEA), England Co Author(s): Dr Paul Linsley Senior Lecturer University of Easy Anglia
Book and audiobook reviews (Not by CAAGe but useful)
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Disobedient Women
Book Review by Cait West (13 AUG 2023) of Sarah Stankorb's new book Disobedient Women: How a Small Group of Faithful Women Exposed Abuse, Brought Down Powerful Pastors, and Ignited an Evangelical Reckoning
It’s the story of how a group of women fought for justice in an unjust and unsafe church.
A fabulous review with lots for us to follow up on!
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When a “Romantic” Read is Really About Grooming
Grace Lapoin looks at The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough and The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger.
Looked at through the lense of grooming, both seem slightly less than romantic.
A review on Bookriot, Jul 19, 2021
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We did not Consent - Victims of the Spycops Scandal
Kate Wilson, aged 25, met Mark ‘Stone’ at a workshop to discuss protests against a forthcoming G8 summit. She was an Oxford graduate, anarchist, environmentalist and peace activist, soon to train as a nurse.
Mark, with whom a relationship flourished, was really Mark Kennedy, a police officer with a wife and two kids. He groomed Kate and fed the intimate details of their relationship to his handlers - part of an ongoing scandal known as Spycops.
Her book, Disclosure, is discussed in this Observer book review by Stuart Jeffries.
(It’s made our growing list of ‘must reads’.)
TV and film reviews
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Death of a Showjumper
Death of a Showjumper is a three part series looking at how charistmatic equestrian Jonathon Creswell groomed and mistreated women in his circles, and fooled others with his charm, with devastating effect.
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Grooming Happens to Grown Ups Too
CAAGe is not alone in recognising grooming for what it is.
Read more and watch Sarah McDugal’s video here.
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Jeffrey Epstein, Filthy Rich
A review of Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich, a four part series looking into the life of notorious groomer, Jeffrey Epstein (director Lisa Bryant)
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For Love or Money
We take a look at the BBC 1 television series, For Love or Money, which we have since given commentary to on several occassions.
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Love Con Revenge: The Selfie Scammer
This is Jill Schardein’s story of being scammed by the apparently charming Todd Dean, known as the Selfie Scammer for the number of pictures and videos sent to his targets, from whom he scammed as much as 10k each month.
It’s the first in a Netflix Series, Love Con Revenge, where The Tinder Swindler target, Cecilie Fjellhøy, teams up with Private Investigator, Brianne Joseph, to investigate love frauds.
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Power: The Downfall of Huw Edwards
Huw Edwards.
News anchor at the top of his profession.
A man with mental health issues and depression.
A man with a wife and large family.
Groomed young men with gifts and money.
Caught with pictures of child pornography.
A sick and twisted tale, with more questions than answers.
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The Serpent
BBC One series, “The Serpent” tells the story of Charles Sobhraj, a charming, charismatic serial killer who targeted young people on the hippy trail across Asia in 1975 and 1976, and how he groomed others into his sick plans.
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Victoria’s Secret: Angels and Demons review
The lingerie chain’s links to Jeffrey Epstein must be explained, says the Guardian’s Lucy Mangan in her review of Angels and Demons.
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Wanderlust
More commentary than a review, this series creates some big questions around honesty and open marriages, and collateral damage!
The Tinder Swindler: the true story of a financial groomer who used dating sites to find his targets. Compelling watching.
Bikram: Yogi, Guru, Predator: sickening exposee on Bikram, the divisive hot yoga guru who groomed and used endless women.
Get Involved - read a book or watch a film
If you fancy creating reviews for CAAGe, we’d love to hear from you. They need to be relevant to grooming and agreed with us, ideally in advance. From the recent Coronation Street stories to a fabulous range of books that we have received but just haven’t had time to read or write up reviews, or the latest block buster. we’ll give you the training to understand what grooming is so that you can help anyone wondering about adult grooming to understand how it happens and how easy it is to fall for.
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