Grooming into Sexual Exploitation and Prostitution
(Survival Sex)
Prostitute is a legal term used for a sex worker. It refers to someone who, whether compelled to do so or not, offers or provides sexual or erotic acts or sexual intimacy in exchange for payment or other benefit or need. (This definition is taken from “The nature and prevalence of prostitution and sex work in England and Wales today”, a paper by the University of Bristol published in 2019.)
The label ‘prostitute’ or ‘sex worker’ is loaded with stereotypes and connotations that become barriers to accessing services or finding ways of escaping sexual exploitation.
CAAGe exists to help adults who have been groomed,in this case into prostitution/sexual slavery.
This means that even if someone has ostensibly willingly found their way into prostitution - perhaps escort work to pay off bills, or thinking that it´s an easier way to earn more than behind the till at McDonalds - if they have been duped or lured into something they wouldn´t have wanted to do otherwise, or persuaded into something by someone with more power than them, we aim to help them find the right support for them. However, the information on this page will, we hope, be useful for a wider audience than this in finding help and support.
A few statistics:
There are believed to be as many as 80 thousand ´sex workers´ in the UK (Government Enquiry stats, 2019), although a BBC article placed this as high as 100 thousand.
Figures suggest that 6-11% of prostitutes are male. There are no statistics available on the trans community, although at CAAGe we have been made aware that the trans community can be vulnerable. In the governments 2017 LGBT research survey, “Some trans respondents said they had undertaken sex work to pay privately for gender reassignment and related treatment due to waiting lists for GI clinics”.
At least one in ten British men over the age of consent claim to have paid for sex at least once (Government Enquiry statistics)
Number of prostitution offences in England and Wales 2002-2024, published July 25, 2024: 184 offences of soliciting for prostitution were recorded in England and Wales in 2023/24 (compared with 2,111 offence in 2002/03).
There is no reliable source of data on representative population estimates due largely to the stigma, the nature of the sex industry, and gow transient involvement can be. Any estimates studies tend to focus on specific segments of the industry (street and outdoor; brothels and parlour; escorting). Male and trans workers suffer hugely from consequences including rape and HIV, but are often overlooked in studies. Some people are involved only intermittently and are often overlooked. And victims of trafficking and exploitation are not easily found, let alone studied.
Is ‘Sex Work’ Work?
It’s a thorny issue, but one we want to address up front.
At CAAGe (the Campaign Against Adult Grooming), we are conscious that the people who approach us, as well as those who use and deliver our services, hold a range of views on approaches to prostitution and the sex industry. Some view commercial sex as inherently exploitative and harmful, a form of male violence against women. Others adopt the ‘sex as work’ view, seeing involvement as a matter of personal choice.
Whilst we will not, as CAAGe, enter into public debates on the legalisation of prostitution, or which legal models are best in order to protect society and its individuals, we are happy to share people´s views and opinions if they add to the possibility of helping those who find themselves stuck in negative cycles of abuse, exploitation or who have, until now, simply been unable to find another way.
Many believe that the terms “sex work” or “sex worker” legitimise exploitation and trafficking, and using the word “work” normalises this and presents it as the same as other jobs. When we use the term ´sex work´ at CAAGe, we use it to reflect the transactional nature of prostitution and sexual coercion. Nothing further should be read into the term.
The NPC Sex Working Guidance Document offers the following: “People who do not consent to the activity they engage in are not to be considered sex workers. They are victims or survivors of sexual exploitation. People who do consent to sexual activity but are subject to control may not be able to give true consent.”
Whilst trafficking into prostitution is well documented, not all involved as prostitutes are trafficked. Some statistics suggest that the figure is as low as 6%, but not all coercion into the índustry is trafficking. Arriving at meaningful information when people are often afraid to speak up is never going to be easy. All of it is taking advantage of someone else, and it’s rarely an equal deal.
We are able to point at first hand experiences of some of the people we have supported.
The path into sexual exploitation and prostitution is far from straightforward, and the testimonies we have heard include ´boyfriends´ who geographically separate women from their families and support networks and psychologically manipulate them; models who are expected to become more than clothes horses; musicians who have used their influence to lure primarily young women into ´situations´; and some who suggest that they voluntarily chose to enter the ‘profession’ to later find their autonomy removed through abusive landlords, boyfriends, employers, even family.
Sadly, too often people are promised one thing and find themselves groomed into situations where they feel coerced into prostitution or have been left by someone else’s deception in a position where they feel it’s their only way out.
CAAGe believes that people should not be sexually exploited, and that the root causes of exploitation need addressing.
Types of sex work that people find themselves pulled into:
Bar-based sex work and hostess bars (often where something harmless seeming results in coercion)
BDSM, kink and fetish (sometimes resulting in partner abuse, or engaged in to avoid consequences such as physical harm, fights, job loss, eviction or being outed.)
Brothels, parlours, saunas
Erotic and exotic dance
Erotic massage
Escort work (independent or agency)
Pornography, Glamour and Erotica
How groomers trap people into sexual exploitation and prostitution
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Jewel´s story: Every year thousands of women are trafficked to European cities and put to work having sex with men. Jewel, a young Nigerian, excitedly accepted a job in care work in Denmark. She managed to escape the harsh reality thanks to two chance meetings.
Story from the BBC
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A man offered Ope (name changed) help to leave her life in Nigeria and find work abroad as a nanny, or in a factory.
Following a hellish four-day trip by boat, with little food or water,she was put to work on the streets of Madrid, where she was raped.
She was then transferred to the UK by her traffickers. This is her story, by the BBC
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Jayne’s angry boyfriends forced her onto the streets, supposedly for ruining some of his drugs during an argument.
Vicki’s boyfriend didn’t even pretend to have an excuse.
Both were supported to leave by Barnardos.
They tell their stories to The Northern Echo
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When charitable institutions are just a front: charities are apparently reviewing millions received from trust, the Hamish Ogston Foundation, as its chair becomes embroiled in a ‘sex worker immigration scandal’.
Interesting for the power and wealth held by one individual, who abused it.
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Stories from the Sex Trade by Renee Van der Zee and Mons van den Berg, in which Dutch sex workers, pimps and johns share their stories offering an insight into how people find themselves trapped into prostitution.
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Modelling is an often used way to lure women, particularly young ones, into trafficked situations.
Stop the Traffik looks at the cases of Liliana del Carmen Campos Puello, who trafficked at least 250 young women (as well as putting the industry into context)
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“On August 22, 2001, Ronald Eppinger, pleaded guilty in U.S. District Court for the Southern District of Florida (Miami) to charges of smuggling aliens into the U.S. for purposes of prostitution, facilitating interstate prostitution, and money laundering.
Mr. Eppinger promised to find women work as models if they would leave their homes in Eastern Europe and migrate to the U.S. On their arrival, Mr. Eppinger put them to work as prostitutes”
October 1, 2001, International Enforcement Law Enforcer
Eppinger was the first to traffick Virginia Giuffre, as a teen running away from sexual abuse in the home. She confided this fact to Maxwell and Epstein, who realised how easily she could be groomed. The rest, as they say, is history.
There is little to be found out about him online, and a distinct lack of photos. He died in 2006 and is believed to have had Mafia links, according to FBI documentation.
The Epstein Maxwell Case
It’s hard to avoid the Epstein/Maxwell case. It’s one of the largest uncovered grooming, trafficking and prostitution rings of the modern age. And a huge miscarriage of justice on so many fronts
Recommended Reading (Book Reviews)
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Nobody's Girl, by Virgina Roberts Giuffre
A Review of Nobody’s Girl, A Mwmoir of Surviving Abuse and Fighting for Jutice, the ‘must read’ book by Virginia Giuffre often hailed as ‘The Book that Brought Down a Prince’
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Silenced No More, by Sarah Ransome
A review of Silenced No More, Surviving my Journey to Hell and Back, by Epstein/Maxwell victim/survivor Sarah Ransome. (Released Dec 2021)
Brilliantly written, it offers a really clear explanation of how this awful trafficking ring operated.
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Please Let Me Go, by Caitlin Spencer
Please Let Me Go is the raw, painful story of what it’s liked to be trafficked, first as a child, then continuining into adulthood.
Painful reading that should be compulsory reading for adults responsible for young women.
Useful Resources - for people working in prostitution/trapped in survival sex
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A Sex Workers Guide to Stalking and Harrassment
This is a 34-page PDF from the SWARM Collective for sex workers on digital security, setting boundaries with clients, legal definitions of different kinds of stalking/harassment and where to seek help.
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Migrants Organise Guide to the NRM
An illustrated, clear guide created by Migrants Organise, explaining clearly the NRM process and what it means to victims of madern slavery if they report
The Legal Situation (Prostitution)
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Know your rights: a guide for prostitutes
It’s legal to be a sex worker in the UK . . . but working together and virtually anything you need to do to contact a client, is illegal.
This guide by The English Collective of Prostitutes covers your legal rights
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The UK Sexual Offences Act 2003
The text of the Sexual Offences Act 2003, on the UK legislation site.
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Is Prostitution Legal in the UK?
“In the UK, with the exception of Northern Ireland (where buying sex is illegal), the law around prostitution is considered a grey area.”
This Politics.co.uk ´Issue Brief´ takes a pragmatic look at the reality of the situation.
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Scottish Law on Prostitution
Scottish Laws on Prostitution differ to that of England and Wales, notably that prostitution is viewed through the lense of VAWG (Violence Against Women and Girls)
Whilst this approach may exclude as many as 10% of sex workers on the basis of their sex/gender, this document is very informative for anyone wanting to understand the legal position of prostitution in Scotland
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Prostitution: What is the law in Scotland, and what do campaigners want to see changed?
The Scotsman looks in depth at Scottish laws relating to prostitution and what campaigners want changing.
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Northern Ireland´s Laws on Prostitution
Northern Irelands laws differ yet again to England & Wales and Scotland.
Their approach appears to address prostitution as a part of trafficking: Human Trafficking and Exploitation (Criminal Justice and Support for Victims) Act (Northern Ireland) 2015.
It is not a crime to sell sexual services or to “loiter or solicit for the purposes of offering services as a prostitute in a street or public place”.
It IS a crime to keep or manage a brothel or control prostitution for profit.
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The National Referral Mechanism (England and Wales)
The instructions given to referral agencies when identifying human trafficking, the national referral mechanism (NRM).
This should be seen as information, not as a recommendation to engage/consent or otherwise.
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Additional information NRM inc NI and Scotland,
Additional information on instructions given to referral agencies when identifying himan trafficking.
Please note that this information is mandated by the Home Office and UK Immigration authorities.
This information is provided as background and should not be seen as a recommerndation to engage/consent or otherwise.
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Laws against 'Pimping'
Those who direct or control prostitution commit four main offences:
1. Trafficking for sexual exploitation
Section 2 Modern Slavery Act 2015
2. Controlling prostitution for gain
3. Causing or inciting prostitution
4. Keeping a brothel
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Trafficking Victims not Referred for Support
A report by the Independent questions the effectiveness of police raids for helping victims of trafficking.
(Dec 2022)
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Not Safe Here
Rape Crisis’ joint report with Imkaan, October 2024, reveals systemic failures to protect women and children from sexual violence and abuse in asylum accommodation (and the protection of abusers).
Useful Resources/find out more - general
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Survival Sex: Understanding and Reconnecting
Beyond the Streets´ free resource and training on ‘survival sex’ for professionals working in statutory and charity support services.
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What is the Nordic Model?
The Nordic Model of policing prostitution is increasingly being favoured, notably across the EU. It criminalises buyers rather than sex workers.
Researcher Dr Niina Vuolajarvi, Assistant Professor in International Migration, European Institute, LSE, takes a deep dive.
(23 May 2023)
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Want to know how to make sex work safe? Ask sex workers
Niki Adams, spokeswoman for the English Collective of Prostitutes, which has campaigned for decriminalisation and safety for sex workers since 1975 writes a well informed comment piece for Politics.co.uk
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Putting Women First
Research shows that nine out of ten involved women want to exit prostitution.
This article takes a look at how a team of experts is providing support to local authorities assisting women in exiting prostitution
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Why Human Trafficking Cases are so Hard to Prove
A USA Today video which offers insight into the challenges of getting justice for victims who are trafficked into prostitution
Sources of Support
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Beyond the Streets works alongside and, on behalf of, women who sell sex.
This is a Christian Charity which tries to embrace new theories, models and ideas on how to partner with people affected by prostitution. They aim not to perpetuate the dynamic of ‘victim’ and ‘rescuer’.
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Eaves is a charity which tries to help transform the lives of women facing violence.
Their programme London Exiting Action (LEA) works with adult women in London who are seeking to exit prostitution.
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Programmes and support services to help women who are being, or who are at risk of being, sexually exploited and involved in sex work or ‘survival sex’.
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NUM is a UK-wide charity working with sex workers to do research, design and deliver safety tools and to provide support services to people in adult industries - a growing community of thousands of sex workers sharing information to keep each other safe.
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Project that has been supporting sex workers for 20 years: OASIS PROJECT
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Rape Crisis England & Wales is the feminist charity working to end child sexual abuse, rape, sexual assault, sexual harassment and all other forms of sexual violence.
They are on record as having helped women escape from trafficked situations, and are an organisation that CAAGe trusts profoundly to find the right help.
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Rape Crisis Northern Ireland supports anyone who is 18 and over and has experienced rape or serious sexual assault in adulthood, regardless of disability, gender identity, social class, marriage and civil partnership, race, ethnic origin, nationality, religion or belief, or sexual orientation.
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Rape Crisis Scotland is Scotland’s leading organisation working to transform attitudes, improve responses and ultimately to end rape and sexual violence in all its forms.
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SEEAWA ( South East And East Asian Women’s Association) has an urgent support fund for South East And East Asian women
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Supporting and empowering women involved in prostitution to build and sustain a new life.
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The SWOP is a confidential and non-judgemental service for self-identifying women sex workers who live or work in Brighton & Hove.
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SWARM is a collective founded and led by sex workers who believe in self-determination, solidarity and co-operation. They campaign for the rights and safety of everyone who sells sexual services. They organise skill-shares and support meet-ups just for sex workers, as well as public events. (Part of the global sex worker led movement advocating the full decriminalisation of sex work.)

